hey

hey buddy

Yes What happened?

what's up

hiii

hi

I'm not feeling well

what happened?

like ill or mentally!?

actually in my office there's every man is married ok

and i don't know why but i feel they still flirt with me

the person seat right next to me i treat him like a my old brother but

many times i feel like something wired about him

you can observe for few more days if you start feeling uncomfortable you should tell them

yaa he's handsome I'm not telling that but he's married and he should understand how to be with others girls

i don't want to attract towards a married man

and it's makes me feel like horrible

you know there might be misunderstanding you might feel distancing yourself from the situation which is helpful in some situations though if not it destroys everything

can you please say clearly I didn't understand

hey that's okay I think it's mixed emotions where you might like him or not doesn't matter but anyway it doesn't make you horrible

i do feel liked that it's makes me feel like I'm a bad person

but he behaves that way

and i know at my age every girl attracts man but i know my boundaries as well

you know few days back

i think the hard hitting fact is if you're a woman is men always want one thing regardless if they are 16 or 70 despite of moral obligation of fidelity so if you don't like advances make very poker and unwelcoming face it will work it is hard to find genuinity good luck

okay see I am young so I might not be the perfect person to explain but some people are just flirty even though it's nothing like that in their mind doesn't Matter what matters is they don't care about their behavior but we do and we start feeling uncomfortableness however sometime it can be solved by talking

but A girl always understands what's making them unconformable if anything like that happens you should talk to him what you don't like if he doesn't stop start keeping serious face or poker face which might make him realize

yeah

but that not happening because of me right

because I'm not like that and I will be never be like that

no of course not he is the one who is married he should understand a married man should always remember he have a wife. it's not your fault sis

i try while giving some he don't touch my hand but unintentionally or intentionally he'll touch my hand and i just don't like it

I don't know about this marriage thing so I can't explain but there is this friend of mine he always flirt with me and he have a girlfriend and he really loves her so much but it's just he is always flirty but It never made me feel uncomfortable I knew it's him joking around

i have a fear like what if I'll started liking him it's fearing me like heal

if you don't like it you should definitely talk about it too some one who you trust or direct too him or whenever he might touch you jerf of his hand

so what you started like him ? feelings are normal but you should know if you fall in love its gonna hurt you at end because he can't be yours and even if he does you will end up judging yourself

firstly i will never gonna do that it's my rule no matter what I'll never do such shit thing and break somes Home and that's why I'm fear of my thoughts

exactly you know what you don't want and what you want so don't give a damn about this if it bothers you talk to him tell him if his intentions are wrong and you don't step up he might take disadvantages and will end up blaming you should have stopped it. I think the best solution might be either talk to him straightly or your friend, coworker whoever you trust

yeah

you know what's the problem is my thoughts

any you there

hey sorry bud was busy their I am still students so gotta study

I am here

and yaa it's true thoughts mess whole mind it's okay to talk thing's out no one is gonna judge you here for your problem feel free ok I will always try to be here . who knows maybe you will also help me one day

yeah for sure

you can i try my best to not think about this but because we seat right next to each other it's always come in my mind

you feeling good now? or the colluege thing is till bothering?

I know I understand but maybe you should relax your mind as his thought comes tell your mind no I am not gonna him bother me

I'm good now but thought will come again once I'll go back to office tomorrow

then why don't you think about something that makes you feel calm like anything or listen to bineual beats

bineual beats can help you to take his things out if your mind

I'll try but I'm not bad right

it's him because of his behaviour i started feeling like this and thinking like this

no you are not. not at all . nothing is wrong with you girl .

then kick his ass in your mind and in reality don't give a damn about him chill girl life is huge guys like him will come and go

yeah thanks for understanding

I'll not gonna think about it and not gonna fear by my thoughts

yup sure I am here ok

i feel good to talk to you

that's Good fear makes us weak than anything

I am glad to be hearing that

yeah

If anything goes wrong we will connect here again okay

yeah for sure

this is link is if your post I will save it

just BTW you are a girl right?

tnx

yup I am girl

yeah

I am not 17 yet btw that's the reason I said I am young to understand this marriage thing

yeah but still you are mature enough i must say 😊

yeah I would have been confident if not this anxiety going for one year

I am glad though that you felt good

you all have an anxiety problem

why though

well when you start feeling no one is there for you ,everyone's gonna silently judge you , no one likes you we start be coming anxious and when you can't vent out feeling anxiety start getting worse

i can understand because I'm all so facing this since 3 years

yaa everyone have problems of their own I mean whoever is on this app is for this reason

yeah you can tell me your problem as well

ahh really ?

yes i would like to listen

https://links.iamears.com/zMh7 I also post on this app

and why are you facing this and what cause you to go through this

. Even since young I never showed my emotions my feelings I was always strong when it come to my mental health. I never ever showed my week side and let anyone be in my emotional state . so they look at me as cold hearted that's not what I am , I have been keeping everything to myself for so long that now I don't understand What I feel anymore. I feel like crying but tears don't escape my eyes , feel like taking anger out but words never. skip my mouth . I am the youngest here so everyone take out their anger on me but what about my feelings my anger , they get irritated lash out me showing how useless I am I feel like I am to young I don't deserve this seeing my friends being open up to their parents makes me think maybe I am just pathetic, whining over small problem I don't understand what I feel anymore

just relax and you are not pathetic at all

you are a very kind hearted person not the cold one

and if you feel like want to show you emotions you can show here

and most of the partner are like this Even my parents don't know what fight I'm fighting with my self

i many times feel like I'm going crazy but i know now on gonna help me and save me i have to save my self and you too should make your self understand that way

everyone call me stone hearted they call me feeling less

but you are not truat me

you know my parents don't understand me at all they always go like Why aren't you like your sister . look at your sister look at yourself. it makes me so angry that I am always compared to my elder sister and I am worried I might hate her I don't want to I really love my sister she means so much too me even If I don't show it I remember my sister going in different state for study purpose and my mom dad cried saying bye to her when I didn't and sleeping in car not facing parents I was crying as hell But I didn't made any sound I always thought my emotions are my buisness . they started calling me feelingless and now I really don't feel anything anymore .

just thinking once you know who you truly are right? but people don't know even for that matter your parents as well but you know how you are and who you are you know your true self and that's okay. i understand it's must be hard when people say mean things but you know what the truth so just ignore there talk and focus on your self improvement

I want to but I lost all my confidence now

actually in 3rd grade something happens which still affects me as hell. no one knows about it accept my parents and After that I stopped snowing my emotions I started keeping things to myself and it still till days is in my memories . I use to feel like dying and it's like everyone forgot about it even my parent's. later my friends betrayed me my friends use to call me lesbian innocent me never understand I always took things light and use too laugh over it knowing now they always bullied me called me lesbian now I understand it I don't believe or trust anyone. some off my friends left me alone in isolated place when I was sick. I stopped trusting people since then

can you please tell me clearly like why your friends called you that

and what happened in 3rd grade

Hey are you there?

hey

ya tell me

well the 3rd grade thing bothers me as hell even being anomoyus I can't say it.

then why your friends called you by that name?

or bullied you?

and about my friends they are from Rich families and from different medium . you know why they called me lesbian actually they never said it directly but always were like you don't have a boyfriend We know the reason behind that cause you aren't in to them or hey why do you touch are chest and say accident just say directly that's what you want Innocent me always took it as silly thing knowing now it wasn't

but you are not like that right? you are straight?

yes I am actually I don't think about love at all. but I am straight they did this because they didn't liked me maybe I was good in sports,studies, drawing there parents used to compare them to me and boom now my parents compare them to me

firstly you know you are straight right secondly now you are mature enough to understand the things so those thoughts should not bother to you you know just forget it i know it's hard to forget something like bullying and all but you have to give your self time to move on

you know wnat actual problem is they did this indirectly so that no one will know it's bullying and my parents think I am rude as I don't want to spend time with them . my mom will go like your friends keep asking for you look at you ungrateful staying in home everytime. And they call me just to leave me alone my mom don't understand that though she said just go with them Then why would you be left alone

Oh God I am so sorry this whole conversation about your problems turned into mine I am really sorry

hi

hey you still there ?

hiii

how was your day at office then today!?